I recently became ill and the sickness lasted about a month, however, I discovered something very absorbing. Whenever we resist something, we tend to maintain what we are resisting in its same place. Initially, I caught a stomach virus from my daughter. At first I thought the sickness had run its course because I accepted some things I had been feeling, however, I continued to feel squeamish for another 3 weeks after. This turned out to be a month long ordeal which started with the stomach virus, nausea, and ending up with a sore throat. I knew the queasy feelings were related to a relationship I have fiercely wanted to be healed. The nausea didn’t go away but seemed to reveal itself in my throat and I ended up with BOTH Tonsillitis and Strep, two completely separate, unrelated illnesses. I was in so much agony, I couldn’t sleep but didn’t want to go to the doctor because I felt I had to do my spiritual task and self-inquiry on it first. I realized I was resentful with my friend and the situation but didn’t know how to let it go, however the answer right before me.

As I was dealing with the sore throat and trying to do some Emotional Freedom Techniques and other processes for releasing blocks, I remembered an involvement I had a few years ago when I took a course about Jesus’ Miracles. On Tuesday and Wednesday of the class, my instructor wore a splint to class which she hadn’t been wearing on Monday. She said that she had been in a car accident a couple years before and that she needed to wear it at times. When we went over Jesus’ miracles, we noticed a distinct pattern. He first meditated about the potential miracle and asked if it was his to do, then when he knew it was his to do, he went to the debilitated person and did some theatrics like spitting on tongues, and poking his fingers in people’s ears, then healing took place. It was not in the theatrics that the healing was done, but in the knowing. Then lo and behold, healing happened.

As we went over Jesus’ miracles, the energy in the room was so high that I KNEW that when full faith was present, anyone could do what Jesus had done. We just had to believe in our own inner guidance and step back. We took a break and while on break, I went within and asked how I could help my instructor heal her hand. The answer I got was “Just Know.” So I went back into the room, held her hand and looked her in the eye and told her that I didn’t know how but I just knew her hand was going to be healed. Within a couple seconds, someone came into the room and said, “Hey your hand is healed already!” The next day, she didn’t wear her sling and said that her hand had felt better than it had in years. Then I called her a year later and during the conversation asked if her hand was still fine and she said yes and that she had completely forgotten about it.

The thought of this miracle had come to me while I was in intense pain and also was resentful about my relationship. I asked how I could heal it (both the agony and the relationship) and I got, “Just know.” As I relaxed into that thought, my throat started to stop hurting and also, I could feel my need to heal the relationship loosen and relaxed into the knowing that the relationship would also be healed. It was beyond my control and all I had to do was know and believe that it was going to heal and was beyond my control. I also asked if I should get some antibiotics and was told, “You don’t have to but if you do, it will feel better a lot more quickly” so the next day I got my antibiotics. Hooray for drugs!

I realized that even though I am very good at going through and doing my processes, it is still a form of control. If I can just RELAX and know that everything is okay, circumstances in my life will heal and transform much more quickly. Sometimes it is very difficult to relax and let the greater part of me take over because even though I lead a pretty non-resistant life, I have tendencies of being a control freak, just like everyone else.

I also realized what had been holding me to my friend. I realized that I had been clinging to the depth we have shared and didn’t want to lose that or put in that much ‘getting to know you” time before having such a deep connection with someone else. I realized that I had been resisting myself and it was about the journey and not the destination and the only person I was resisting was me. My resistance was me not wanting to get to know myself more privately in a different way with someone else. Also, although I love my friend quite deeply, I now feel very removed from how he shows up. The throat healed and then a little while later, after not speaking to my friend for over 9 months, we talked and our friendship has evolved.

I finally let go of my need to control the situation and allow myself to completely release the outcome. The moment I could totally relax knowing that everything would work out as it should but it was beyond my control was the moment that the universe took over and things started working out.

Here are the essential steps to how you can accomplish the same results in your own life:

Clarity - be clear on what you desire

Listen - for guidance

Faith - have faith in the inner assistance you receive

Action - do what you are told to do

Relax - and allow yourself to dissociate from the outcome

Your ability to relax and detach from the desired outcome is in direct relation to your ability to manifest miracles in your life. Let go of your need to control and the more easily you can let go of any outcome, the more swiftly you will see it manifest in your life.

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Kisses are used to show a variety of emotions and in a variety of situations. Some kisses are just pecks on the cheek to say hello, others are motherly kisses on the head and others are between people who care about each other and are more passionate. For people who are in love and want to show the other how strongly they feel, only a passionate kiss will do. These kisses can be great when done well but can also be a little uncomfortable when it gets sloppy and is not done well. It is important to know how to give someone you care about a passionate kiss. Here are some tips for you.

1. Fresh breath is very important so make sure you brush and floss regularly. Also, keep some breath mints with you to take before you start a kiss with your partner.

2. Be sure of yourself when you go in for a kiss, even if it is a first kiss. Know you have made the right move at the right time and expect good results. If you feel lack of self-confidence, download and use Subliminal Flash program. It will help you become more confident on a subconscious level.

If for some reason, your partner does not respond like you would like them to then you’ll know the time was not quite right.

3. When you go to kiss your partner, lean closer and tilt your head to the side slightly. By leaning in, you are letting the person know you want to kiss them and turning your head helps avoid a collision with your noses.

4. Don’t rush the passionate kiss. You want to begin with a soft, closed lip kiss and move on slowly to an open mouth one with tongue. Keep your eyes closed so there are no uncomfortable moments when you are that close up.

5. Start out with a closed mouth kiss and slowly open your mouth. Pay attention to how your partner responds - do they open their mouth too or close it? As you kiss you can open and close your mouth slightly to change things up. Use your tongue to touch your partner’s lips and teeth if you want. You can do whatever you want as long as both of you are comfortable with it.

6. French kissing can be very passionate. This involves using your tongue to touch your partner’s tongue deep in their mouth for a very sensual experience.

7. Once the kiss is going smoothly you can try moving down to the neck and gently kissing there. Make sure you don’t get carried away and leave a hickey on their neck though!

8. Don’t just keep your arms at your waist, use them during the kiss. You can hold your partner close to you, rub their back or legs, run your hands through their hair or whatever else comes naturally. You shouldn’t touch your partner in a way that is inappropriate for your relationship and what stage it is at though so be careful. Hugging your partner is often the best choice. Pay attention to your partner’s body language to see if they are alright with how you are touching them.

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Search engine optimization (SEO) is usually portrayed as technical and complex by most internet marketing gurus. There are many very simple SEO tricks that can help you get good ranking for a blog post.

Google gets a lot of daily searches and if that keyword has around 50+ searches daily that means traffic to your blog as long as your post has the ranking. You can get a lot of traffic to your blog if you use these tricks to rank a number of blog posts.

But before these trick starts working, you need to have at least 50 posts on your blog. Once your blog post reach more than 50, Google will start considering you a serious blogger.

Google likes fresh content. Since blogs provide fresh content to Google on daily basis. Google indexes blog posts much faster than webpages. If you are posting at least once everyday, your blog will get priority with Googlebot and it will index the post (in most cases) in 15 minutes.

When you are posting on a blog, first choose a keyword that you want to get that post ranked. Use that keyword in the title of the post.

The first sentence of the post should contain that keyword. Use that keyword in the post a number of times. But the keyword density should not be more than 4% in the content.

Try to include three or four links in the post containing the keyword solely. Give emphasis by bolding the link. The URL of that post should also contain the keyword as an extension like http:// www.Yourdomain.com/keyword. Both wordpress and blogger allow you to do this.

In case of blogger, you cannot change the URL of the post after you have published the post. So use the keyword in the title. Publish the post. Edit and change the title again if you want. But it should still contain the keyword.

This is the best way to tell Google; look, this is the keyword for this particular post. These very simple tricks can help your posts get top ranking for keywords having 100,000 to 1000,000 competing webpages.

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